Colby Millberg: So sorry for you, You got the wrong guy. my wife is the housewife and I do all that for her.I do wash laundry, folds and irons. The biggest job is to be a mother. Hope your husband will get it someday. As a family, We need to help each other any time, anywhere and anything.I know some guy think all they do is go out there, get a job and bring home some money. It's not right. Husband & wife need to help each other no matter what.Talk to him and hope He will be what the MAN can be.Have a nice day....Show more
Jerrod Guilfoil: Depends on how close you are to this woman. I usually mind my own business but if it's someone very close to me, I would definately tell them.
Emerita Sciandra: yes, lots of men do laundry. My hsuband puts his own clothes in the machine whenever he feels like it, though mostly I do it since he has a full-time job which I do not. My husband always irons his own shirts. Neither of us do folding, we just tend to shove clothe! s into drawers and wardrobes.My oldest son does his own washing and ironing, and has since he was sixteen. i don't know whether he folds his clothes or not, but I don't really mind....Show more
Jackson Esmiol: I start the laundry but when it comes time to fold, I wait until I see him sitting around doing nothing and I ask him nicely if he would help me fold the laundry. Most of the time he does, sometimes he puts it off. I've learned if you ask him once and don't nag him, he'll more likely do it. Then when we finish, I always make sure to tell him how wonderful he is to help me fold the laundry. Just like you, your husband needs to feel appreciated. If you complain and nag, it makes him not want to do it....Show more
Barrett Zheng: What happened that you suddenly saw the light? Why the sudden disgust? Who are you in this picture?thanks for the extra information.I would leave it alone if I were you....Show more
Erin Arron: Yes, I am the regular laundry per! son in the house.......
Amada Greising: mine does
! Joan Stavropoulos: i know for a fact he has had affairs with over 8 different women during his 10 year marriage and I saw him out with another woman being affectionate to her! i'm very disgusted but i'm not sure if i should just mind my own business..
Manie Labat: plenty of guys do laundry. I do laundry for my family of 4. This is 2008, not 1950.
Cody Petrulis: yea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Marita Stadick: It's his responsibility to do his own dang laundry, and if he's only staying a week then he shouldn't need his sheets washed. Neither you or your mom should feel obligated to do these things. He should instead be politely asking your mother if it's okay that he uses the washer/dryer, and to then use it quickly and get his things out of the way so that he doesn't interrupt other household chores. Is your cousin not aware that he's staying at someone's HOUSE and not a hotel? When you stay at someone's house, you should try to be a good house guest. That means clean up! after yourself, pitch in where you can, and try not to create extra work for your host when you can avoid it. If I had a house guest like your cousin, they'd never be invited back! Don't do his laundry, don't clean up his messes, and if he leaves his crap lying around then put it on his bed so he can deal with it. Gawd, what a jerk!...Show more
Glynda Darrin: A picture is worth a thousand words. A picturegram is worth 10,000 words. Have hard evidence if you really want to help your friend otherwise you are just brewing trouble that is unsubstantiated. You risk losing a friend as well. For all you know she already knows. A real friend would not let their friend get taken advantage of this way though. Hire a PI, get pics, provide those pics to a picturegram that comes to his work signing a song like Your Cheatin Heart that ends with giving him the pics and letting him know his wife has copies. Better yet call Cheater's so I can watch this. The bigger problem yo! u have is that you have "known" he was with 8 others over 10 years and ! did nothing. Thats really fed up so, be prepared to loss a friend no matter what. He made it your business if you know so, there is no such thing as minding your own business....Show more
Hans Sachetti: Dang, this is a hard one. Is the wife your friend? If so then I feel like she should know, because if she finds out that you knew all along, a great friendship may be ruined. On the other hand, if you are mutual friends with both of them, that is a hard one. I couldnt imagine, however holding my tongue when I know my friend is at risk for veneral diseases.
Jen Maday: I would. It is a matter of health in this day and age. Chances are, she is aware that this has happened as some point. It may give her the incentive she needs to get out of the mess.
Maria Bengston: Most men I find don't do laundry and if they do they tend to screw it up.... probably on purpose so you won't ask them to do that again.They do come in handy when you need somebody for heavy lif! ting :)
Hong Hunkin: Yes you can :)I live in NH but married in VT. People marry in other states all the time. Congrats!
Penelope Armond: You WASH clothes.You DO laundry.
Loriann Carrigan: My wife and I do our own laundry, have for years. Tell your husband to get off his lazy a$$.
Caterina Yeargan: He didn't know how to take care of himself and wanted a mother and/or he got lonely. Also, he may have fallen in love.
Gaston Edgcomb: This man's behavior is disgusting. However, I can assure you when it comes to other people marriages no good deed goes unpunished. You have good intentions and even though morally you may be doing the right thing, realistically this has a 100% chance of blowing up in your face. I would advise you to do nothing. If you really really have to meddle I suggest you find a way to do it anonymously. Otherwise things will get really messy and not only will you be stuck in the middle, the chance are that they will BOTH turn on! you in the end.The best thing you could do though is to leave it be...! .Show more
Jestine Osumi: I only hope he hasn't rushed in and married on the rebound from his divorce. I feel a person needs time out to recover and find themselves again and build up new interests, and enjoy time with family, friends and be themselves....Unfortunately, the rebound effect is quite common.
Kandi Lough: My husband does everything for me. He also does dishes and puts them away. Alof of men are like yours. Men are like that because they take things for granted that you are going to do things for them.
Wally Gower: I would not say anything unless I was close with her. Have you spoken to the guy yet? Let him know that you are aware what he's doing and that you think it's wrong. You have to use judgment on whether or not you should say anything. I remember my cousin was dating a girl that I really liked, She was very sweet and kind. I also knew that my cousin was really cheating on her repeatedly, and everyone else did too. So instead of someon! e else finding out, I told her that he was cheating on her. But before I told her, I let my cousin know that I was going to tell her if he didn't stop. He didn't stop, so I told. Years later, the same cousin got married to a woman I did not have a close relationship with. I knew he was cheating, but I never told her anything bc I didn't know her well enough to enlighten her, she would probably think I was trying to mess up what she thought she had.. So it's your call. I'm sure you'll make the right decision....Show more
Tomeka Hameen: lots do
Bettye Arre: Dont be a damn fool. Write a note/letter from anonymous and inform her with all the information that you have. how would you feel if somebody didnt tell you? ****** pissed, thats how you would feel. now do the right thing already instead of sitting on the computer!!!!
Sammy Kar: You can marry some one in another country if you want. If they discover humans on another planet I am sure that you can marry th! em
Toby Women: I've never met one...actually, I saw my dad do lau! ndry once and he messed it all up. This is why I am happily single. I'll do my own darn laundry.
Delora Struzzi: Talk to your mother-in-law!!!!! LOL My husband was like yours...hopelessly helpless! His Mom and Grandmother did EVERYTHING for him. It took years...but he finally learned to be a husband instead of a child...and actually became quite a good cook! Be loving and patient and SHOW him how to go this...it IS harder than driving a car!!!! Teaching works...anger doesn't. Good luck and God bless! P.S. Before my son left home, he KNEW how to do all of the things an adult should know how to do...including sewing on a sewing machine, how to clean a refrigerator and how to do laundry!!! Teach YOUR children!!!!...Show more
Raul Tllo: I don't know I always did it becuz I don't want my whites to be pink!
Brock Anwar: The question is the woman really knows how to treat him, that is why there is a change in his heart, it has got him settled, sometimes ! experience counts for everything, not only knowledge.
Mitchell Pickens: mine does sometimes but he throws everything in no matter the colors or aything so i try not to let him do it but i an grateful when he does. it shows he is trying to help out.
Ruby Martis: I was my soon to be ex husbands fourth wife. Yeah I know I should've thought twice before marrying him. Anyways I am 36 and he is 51. I have two teenagers from a previous marriage that he has helped raise for the last 8 yrs. He said if we ever got divorced he would never marry again especially to anyone that has kids. Well he is now engaged with a child on the way from a 23 y/o with 3 kids under the age of 5. So I have no idea. I guess a mid life crisis maybe..At least he is her problem now and not mine any longer....Show more
Virgil Loatman: qqqqqq
Deangelo Marchak: My guy does his own laundry. I've asked him not to do mine LOL. He knows what he's doing but I don't want to have to give order! s "OK this red shirt cant go in the dryer, this one needs to be washed ! inside out - these jeans are new, dont wash them with lighter clothes, etc, etc" I'll do his when I see him getting a bit behind, just to be nice. But it's not expected and he does do it 90% of the time....Show more
Jeannine Vassie: His poor wife is going to be devastated, but, she is wasting her love and time with this serial cheater. If you are close to this woman, by all means tell her. But, before you do, take cellphone pics of him with other women. I know its a little crazy, but, this calls for extreme measures. If you barely know this woman, then leave it alone.
Sammy Hatzenbihler: I do and i dont mind at all....fold em and put them away also....also take out the trash wash and dry and put away the dishes....geege this sounds like a resume for work lol......
Lou Ravelo: thanks for the responses so far. No she doesn't know me at all. I just know the guy and no I am not one of his lovers. He did start off pursuing me as a single man and forgot to take! his ring off oneday so I busted him. we just got to talking and he seemed to confide alot to me for some reason. I guess he has some little conscience deep down there. I actually feel sorry for him. As far as I'm aware, she is aware of one incident. Minding my own business might be the way to go......Show more
Gladys Worthing: So what you are saying is you do everything and he dont do anything???? Good Catch you got there!
Keneth Mailhot: I do laundry when my wife asks because she likes to do it. I do the bathroom, dust and clean the kitchen on top of doing all the repairs and yard work. Sounds like you have a lazy hubby.
Romeo Tinnea: Most people say that based on their feelings bc of all the hurt involved..and feelings change so the situation can change as well..and yes people do have a change of heart..
Inez Relihan: Men and women tend to say never again because of the hurt the relationship caused and not wanting to go through it again. But ! we are only human and most folks want to have a good relationship and t! he forever after of it all. To be connected attached and a unit. So after the hurt goes away we manage to pick up the pieces and go for it once more.
Sonya Volcko: All my boyfriends have done their washing and ironing. In fact, my current b/f insists on ironing his jeans flat (no crease at front) and his shirts. He gets his work trousers cleaned and pressed at a dry cleaner's.
Justin Casten: They need someone to take care of them. As for this person's choice, he obviously didn't know what was coming.
Kaylee Schmittou: I do all the laundry except for the 2 oldest children. I made them start doing their own when I noticed they kept sending me the same clothes to wash, stuff they never wore.
Barrett Felicia: Mine has but the way he does it just "isn't the right way" (according to me). So, I do all the laundry and I enjoy it!
Javier Holsonback: Most people that I've known who have gone through a divorce say that they'll never get married again. ! Divorce is an ugly business. But people tend to heal over time...and fall in love again. Sounds like it's happened for your friend.
Tricia Dossous: I do all the laundry in our household, that is a family of seven kids. My wife and I share in all the household chores, along with the kids. We are both professional people and work and play many hours each week, but we make times to get all the chores done, evenly. Tell your lazy husband to get off his a** and help around the house. If you keep allowing him to get away with doing nothing, the harder it will become to change. Good luck.
Inge Mclaurine: This man I know was repulsed by the idea of marrying again, especially didn't want someone who had children and an ex. The woman he has recently married has two children and 2 previous ex-husbands.What's up with that??...Show more
Rhett Kaines: Most men think that it's the wife's job to cook, clean, wash, etc. So when it comes down to hosehold things, they e! xpect you to do it.
Ismael Sixon: I have been separating my white! s and colors -doing my own washing, drying, and folding since I was 17. I am now 37 and do not expect my gf (my future wife) to do my laundry.
Wilbur Marksberry: man are sometimes almost always lazy, my friends bf never washes his clothes just sprays them with axe body spray
Star Gollnick: HAHAHAHAH!!!! Yes, a lot of men dont mind washing (if you trust them doing that) but good luck with folding. Unless they were raised or are really neat guys, they usually wont fold.
Dan Seen: ....wondering all the time how the other guy / guys had been using this body in the past, the idea may be turning him off because he may not be getting any committed relationship from a woman with ex's and his brood,since such liaisons for the woman may be more due to necessity of a man for security rather that emotional and romantic.So it is advisable, if you get real and true love,keep it safely and securelyas you not get it again in life....Show more
Stanton Villao: hi i'm ! planning to get married in Boston MA but I live in new jersey is it possible that I can do this my fiance lives in Boston thank you for the help?
Jeannetta Gaffigan: It's called a rebound and being to afraid to be out of there comfort zone.
Leora Klingelhoets: If he's had affairs with many women over a 10 year marriage, the wife may already know. She may stick with him anyway because she is afraid of leaving him for whatever reason. If she doesn't know, she is probably miserable anyway in the marriage because it would be impossible for him to truly show love to her while having affairs on a regular basis. Maybe you could just be a friend and ask her how her marriage is, how he treats her and is she happy. If the conversation leads into it, then use your judgment if it's a good time to tell her what you know....Show more
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