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Lawana Neemann: My dear Lavender salam for you.I have been married since September 16,1966 so I have 42 years of marriage experinence, I have 4 children one sonand 3 daughters...Three of my children studied abroad 2 daughters in USA (illinois and san diego) and 1 son in New Zealand (plamerstone north).Now I have 8 grand cildren the oldest in senior high schoolthe youngest in kinder garten.Alhamdulillah we are happy by implementing take and give principles and accepting the shortcomings of each other and respecting and caring of each other.I am 71 years old and my wife is 64 years old now.We are from different ethnic,I am a sundanese while my wife is a madurese..My profession was a government servant for 40 years since 1956 up to 1996. .Besides that in thje evening I give a lecture at the university for 30 years since 1962 up to 1992.After I had pension in 1996,I work in private sector as public accountant because the monthly payment of pension is not enough for our dail! y living cost in Jakarta the capital city of Indonesia.We have the principle that giving good education is better than giving wealth to our children.The wealth can be lost but knowledges will be taken upto death. Besides that we regard that islamic religion knowlwdge is the most important for making good moral in the society.and success in the life....Show more

Providencia Jalbert: Fourteen Years. Mostly ups. Especially when I got smarter and started being better to her.

Lionel Tanen: 9 great years and each one has been a better year than the one before. My experience has been that if we continue to work hard and to share mutually rewarding goals, that we can achieve just about anything that we put our minds to. I am excited to see what each new year brings!

Hilton Paiva: i have been married for just on 2 years and its nothing i thought it would be... it takes alot of hard work, patience and giving.. if you are a girl you will need to put in the hard yar! ds to really make it work Guys will NEVER change

Rolanda! Merritt: Been married 8 years now and I love my wife very very much. It's isn't always easy, but love is devotion - not emotion. My only complaint is that we have far less sex than we used to, which is really tough for me sometimes.

Lynn Hollars: 7 yrs and it has its ups and downs

Troy Monsivais: 24 years tomorrow Oct 6th Marriage has it ups and downs, but it is what you and your partner make it..

Brock Hladik: I've been married now for 6 years and we've been together for almost 11. I will tell you that marriage is give and take and it does have its ups and downs. If you all can meet in the middle and find some common ground then most cases things will work out favorably.Just my 2 cents. Hope this helps out....Show more

Troy Monsivais: Been married 8 years...married my best friend, we have our ups and downs like everyone, but can talk everything out.

Jeff Frizzell: 3 years and marriage got its ups anddowns, but its up to you and your spou! se to make it work. it can be great or a tragedy. life is what you make it

Tawny Grosskreutz: i have been married 27 yrs we have 2 children.son25 daughter 24.i,ts got to be a give and take .it,s what you make of it.

Mercedez Trabue: 5years12years2years7 years5.5 yearsNeed I say more?...Show more

Chastity Doderer: I have been married 13 years the 16th of this month and it has been really hard especially when majority of those years were spent raising kids.we are still raising them however they are not small and we separated for a year and 'dated' again in order to save our relationship. divorce was not and will never be an option for us as both of us come from broken homes so we are willing to do anything to keep it alive.there are time when he isn't happy being around me and there alot of times when he gets on my nerves but never once do I wish my life to be any different and I wouldn't change anything from the past....Show more

Adelle Weight: 24 yrs! do i love him yes very much! would i do it again? not suremarriage take! s a lot out of youbut then again, life takes a lot out of youit is what you make of it

Reyes Brunell: i have been married 5 1/2 years my experience has been some what good/bad but nothing we can't over come.

Shaun Rapkowicz: 9months and so far so good. It is not an easy thing and needs to be worked on from both sides constantly. I believe having a strong religious foundation helps keep a strong marriage. Also, having at least one day a week to hang with your girlfriends to vent is wonderful!

Jesse Japak: I have married 6 times. I have three wives now and 32 children! It sounds ok. Nothing to complain. Life is good!

Sheldon Lally: six years, it was 6th October, 2002. Every one have a different thoughts, in Urdu it is said " Jis ne ki( Shadi) wo bhe Pichtaya jis ne na ki wo bhee pichtaya. in my opinion marriage completes the human beings and the the children complete the marriage. Being a muslim marriage saves us from sins, and it gives a peace of mi! nd. before marriage our every thing, ( thoughts, habbits etc) are scattered. but marriage makes us so much careless ( like coward), it has also finished the liberty of every things. success of marriage is donot highlight the weakness always think about positives of other.and donot discuss tough issues in front of others, and donot try to dominate each other, ( especially for girls, they should not try to control the husband in every matter, lol)sourcepersonal expreince...Show more

Elvin Weichbrodt: I have been married ten years. And marriage is great but there are times when your spouse pisses you off. You are two different people trying to make a life together until death. But from my experience there are more good times then bad times. And as long as you both mature and grow so will your marriage. I love being married but this didnt happen until we learned to communicate with each other.

Ricky Frazer: I lost half my things.